Following the Example of Christ (John 13)

Follwing the Example of Christ (John 13)

“Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Jesus. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do for us whatever we ask.” “What do you want me to do for you?” he asked. They replied, “Let one of us sit at your right and the other at your left in your glory.” “You don’t know what you are asking,” Jesus said. … When the ten heard about this, they became indignant with James and John. Jesus called them together and said, “You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:35-45)

“Not so among you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” Here is the DNA of the Church.

Back in the 1950’s, at the request of the Church Assembly, the Archbishops of Canterbury and York issued “A Short Guide to the Duties of Church Membership”.  A few years ago, we adopted this guide as the basis for our own Membership Covenant. You can pick up a copy from the information desk or website.[i] Between now and Easter we are exploring what it means to be a member of Christ Church. At Easter we will invite you to rededicate yourself to follow Jesus and serve in and through his Church.

Today we begin with the first of nine duties or privileges of church membership: “To follow the example of Christ at home and daily life, and to bear personal witness to him.”  How can we do that?

What does it mean? Please turn with me to John 13.  Chapters 13-17 are known as the Upper Room Discourse. What is surprising is that in the first twelve chapters of John’s Gospel, Agape, God’s love is mentioned 8x. But in chapters 13-17, it is mentioned 31x. I want us to see the connection between love and service by what Jesus knew, what Jesus did and what Jesus taught.

1. What Jesus Knew: The Extent of Loving Service

“It was just before the Passover Feast. Jesus knew that the time had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he now showed them the full extent of his love. The evening meal was being served, and the devil had already prompted Judas Iscariot, son of Simon, to betray Jesus. Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God & was returning to God.” (John 17:1-3)

Three things we are told Jesus ‘knew’. First, “Jesus knew that the time had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father.” (John 13:1)  He knew he was rapidly approaching the most important moments of his life. His destiny from eternity past. He knew that the pain, the shame and the agony of the cross was before him.  Here is the question: If you knew that you would die tomorrow, what would you do today? I would spend the time with my family, I’d write some short letters to family members too far to visit and I’d make sure my will is in order. Not Jesus.  John wants us to see something significant about Jesus. Fully God and fully man, Jesus is facing something we cannot imagine. He doesn’t say to the disciples, “Don’t you care about what I’m facing?”  His focus is not on himself. He is concerned that they be prepared for what’s about to happen. Jesus is focused on them. Jesus knew the time. Do you?

Second, “Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God;” (John 13:2).  He knew who he was. Jesus, was the Lord of the Universe. If anyone didn’t have to humble himself to wash the feet of farmers and fishermen, He didn’t. But because he knew he was Lord of the Universe, because He knew He was not diminished by showing his love in humble service, he took up the towel and basin and stooped to fulfil the role of a foreign slave – to do for them what they were unwilling to do for him, let alone for one another. Are we as secure in our position as children of God? Can we serve without feeling it is in any way demeaning? Jesus knew the time. Jesus knew who he was.

Third, notice something else Jesus knew, “For he knew who was going to betray him…” (John 13:11) Judas, full of deceit, full of hypocrisy, is about to “stab Jesus in the back.” Jesus knows it. What does Jesus do? What would I do? Some people’s motto is “Do unto others before they do unto you.” Not Jesus. Jesus does not distance himself from Judas. Jesus does not point his finger and say to him, “How dare you—after all I’ve done for you?” Instead he loves him to the end. He does everything possible to bring Judas to repentance. He washes his feet with the same tenderness and affection that he gives the others.

No resentment, no anger, no bitterness, only sorrow for the awful decision Judas had made and the terrible consequences that would follow. I hope you would wash the feet of your family. What about your friends? What about your enemies? Will you serve knowing it probably won’t be reciprocated? What Jesus knew. He knew his time. He knew his Father. He knew his betrayer. What Jesus Knew: The Extent of Loving Service.


2. What Jesus did: The Proof of Loving Service


”so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.” (John 17:4-5)

I imagine there were a few open mouths, some wide eyes and hushed conversations as, one by one, the disciples realised what Jesus was doing under the table. Without saying a word he gives them a lecture. Isn’t this the way we learn our most vivid lessons? Notice the ‘action’ words in verses 4 & 5.

2.1 “he got up from the meal”

He left his comfort zone. He made his body do something it may have not wanted to do. My alarm went off at 6:30 this morning. My body did not want to get up. After a lengthy discussion with my body, it got up. To be a servant you have to engage the will. Jesus got up.

2.2 “he took off his outer clothing”

To serve others we usually have to lay something aside. Most of us live with a full schedule of activity. If I’m going to serve someone I often have to give up doing something for myself. Every servant has to deny himself something, to have the time and energy to give to others. Jesus got up and took off his outer clothing.

2.3 “he wrapped a towel around his waist.

After that he poured water into a basin.” He made preparations to meet the need no one else was willing to supply.


2.4 and “he began…”

Jesus gradually circles the table and comes to the feet of Peter. Peter resists. Peter is so emphatic, he uses a double negative, “No,” … “you shall never wash my feet.” Perhaps it was the fisherman’s zealous determination not to be done a service that made him cry out in protest. Maybe it was the humiliation that he did not offer Jesus this simple act of hospitality himself.  I can only think of two people who ever wanted to wash my feet.  My mother and father. Why? because they loved me. Someone once said, “It is possible to give without loving but impossible to love without giving.” Service is an act of loving.  This was what Jesus is communicating so graphically here.

Through surrendering our pride to the hands of Christ, by identifying him bent over the bowl scrubbing us clean like little children, that is how our salvation comes. “If I don’t wash you“, said Jesus, “you have no part of me.” What ever it was for Peter, his feet exposed his independent pride. Peter would rather wash the feet of Jesus than let Jesus wash his feet. Later Peter would insist, he would rather die for Jesus than let Jesus die for him.  And that was the lesson he was beginning to learn.  Many people today still misunderstand Jesus just as Peter did.

Service for a Christ-follower is not optional. It’s not something we can refuse. But neither is it a right we can demand. I had someone come to me recently who said in effect, unless I serve in a particular role, I resign. I had to remind them that servants don’t get to dictate.  I had someone else come to me and complain that because they’d been in the church a long while they felt they ought to be able to serve in a particular role. I had to remind them that service is not a reward either. Its not a right or a reward but a response of thankfulness. As the beautiful Easter hymn puts it: “When I survey the wondrous cross on which the Prince of glory died, my richest gain I count but loss, and pour contempt on all my pride.”

The person who has not yet learnt to count in this way cannot cope with this image of Jesus and servanthood. Do not be surprised when some friends and family make excuses when you invite them to a special service or church based event. They like to pretend they don’t need a wash, they’re clean enough already.  “I know I don’t go to Church but…” But what?  We can do nothing for Jesus until we have been washed by Jesus. Then you won’t be complaining about your place of service because your eyes will be on him not yourself.

“Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!” 10Jesus answered, “A person who has had a bath needs only to wash his feet whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.” (John 13:9-10);

Its important to understand what Jesus is saying to Peter. We must not question the Lord’s will or work, or try to manipulate him.  He knows what He is doing. Peter had a difficult time accepting Christ’s ministry to him because Peter was not yet ready to minister to the others.

It takes humility to serve others, and the first step is to allow our pride to be humiliated to the point that we repent and are broken.  Let me ask you, have you allowed Jesus to wash your soul?  The invitation is here, the choice is yours. Just remember what Jesus said to Peter, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” (John 13:8).

The ultimate purpose of all our acts of loving service, if they are to count for eternity, will be to lead people to Jesus to be made clean as we have.  Christ Church is not primarily a club, a choir or a charity. We are a community of servants, serving a loving Lord by serving others. We should evaluate all our activities by this criteria, by this standard. “Jesus began”. I like that. At some point we too have to begin. We can think about serving. We can pray about serving. We can prepare for serving. We can even volunteer to serve. But at some point we must start serving. Start fulfilling our destiny. What Jesus Knew: The Extent of Loving Service. What Jesus did: The Proof of Loving Service

3. What Jesus taught: The Example of Loving Service

“When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am.  Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet.  I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. Very truly I tell you, servants are not greater than their master, nor are messengers greater than the one who sent them.  Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.” (John 13:12-17)

Let me ask you three questions from these verses,

3.1 Do you understand what Jesus has done for you?

Jesus begins with a question: “Do you understand what I have done for you?”  (John 13:12).  “I have set you an example” That is all the motivation you should ever need to give the rest of your life in joyful obedient Christian service. It doesn’t matter what your qualifications are. It doesn’t matter how gifted you are.

It doesn’t matter how insecure, or ill-equipped, or nervous you feel. It’s about becoming a servant like Jesus. If my experience of God is only about me, and what he can do for me, I’ve missed the point. You know the greatest human tragedy? For a person to never receive Christ and experience his forgiveness.  Know what the second greatest tragedy is? For a person to experience Christ’s love, his forgiveness and grace and never share that with someone else. The day before St. Valentine’s Day, its appropriate to consider what C.S. Lewis says about the danger of bottling up love. In his book The Four Loves, he writes.

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket–safe, dark, motionless, airless–it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable … The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers of love is Hell.”

Do you understand what Jesus has done for you? This is linked to a second question.

3.2 Do you recognise who Jesus is?

Notice Jesus is explicit in telling the disciples why he has done this. “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am.” (John 13:13).

This is not your pastor asking you to volunteer, not your boss asking you to work overtime, not even your parent asking you to help clean the dishes. This is your Lord speaking. Jesus asked his friends, “Why do you call me Lord, Lord and do not do what I say?” (Luke 6:46). Jesus is not asking you. He is not pleading with you. He is not even inviting you. He is calling you to follow him as your Lord. When you are gripped by who Jesus is, and what he has done for you, everything else is secondary. So, do you understand what Jesus has done for you? Do you recognise who Jesus is?

3.3 Do you appreciate what Jesus expects of you?

“Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.” (John 13:14-15).

What does Jesus expect of us? That we “…wash one another’s feet.” What does that mean? That means doing whatever it takes to meet the needs of those we encounter, wherever we are, whoever they are, however inconvenient, however unpleasant. Next month one of my heroes in the faith will be 98. When Bishop Kenneth Cragg turned 90, I attended a celebration at Lambeth Palace. Besides the archbishop, there were many other bishops present and guests from all around the world. All there to honour a frail old gentleman who had them all in awe. Kenneth Cragg is probably still the leading scholar in the world today on Islam and interfaith dialogue. He has written 30 books, all of them classics. His words are so distilled you have to read each sentence several times to have any hope of understanding its meaning.

After the Archbishop and various Bishops had expressed their appreciation, Kenneth spoke with humility and erudition about his love of the Lord Jesus Christ in a way that was breathtaking. He summed up his long life, his academic studies, his contribution to our understanding of Islam and interfaith relations in one sentence – “Confronted by the love of Christ, we have no choice.” Confronted by the love of Christ we have no choice. No choice but to serve the one who in loving service gave his life to set us free, who in loving service forgave our sins, who in loving service gave us meaning and purpose on this earth, who in loving service has given us eternal life.

Kenneth was not being original, merely quoting the apostle Paul’s same experience, “For Christ’s love compels us.” (2 Corinthians 5:14) It does indeed. Today we have been considering the first privilege of church membership: “To follow the example of Christ at home and daily life, and to bear personal witness to him.”

We have considered from John 13:

1. What Jesus Knew: The Extent of Loving Service
2. What Jesus did: The Proof of Loving Service
3. What Jesus taught: The Example of Loving Service

We have asked ourselves three questions: Do you recognise who Jesus is? Do you understand what Jesus has done for you? Do you appreciate what Jesus expects of you?

We were created to serve, we were gifted to serve, shaped to serve, and here, we are called to serve by our Lord and Saviour Himself. Need more motivation? Jesus promises “Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.” (John 13:17).  Lets pray for God’s blessing.

“Lord, please make each and every one of us here fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ, today and bless your church. For your glory, in Jesus name. Amen.”