Purpose Driven Life 2
Ephesians 2:1-10 Planned for God’s Pleasure

 

A man named Bill Mallory travelled to India to discover the purpose of life.  But he didn’t find the answer there.  So after returning, he noticed a sign at Texaco petrol station that simply said, “As you travel, ask us.”  So every time he pulled into a Texaco station, he would look to the sign and say, “I’m a traveler.  I’d like to ask you a question.  What is the purpose of life?”  These were the real answers he got.  I’m not making this up.  The first guy said, “Sorry.  I’m new here.” The second guy said, “I don’t remember anything in the manual about that.”  Another guy said, “I’m not much for church myself, sir.”  One guy gave him a leering look and a wink, whatever that meant. However, most people just gave him a blank stare, cleaned his windscreen; but he kept asking at all the Texaco stations.  One day Mallory got a phone call from Texaco Customer Relations.  They said, “We understand you’ve been asking our dealer questions and getting unsatisfactory answers.”  The man suggested that he write out his question and send it to Texaco Corporate with a self-addressed stamped envelope.  So Bill Mallory wrote, “What is the purpose of life?” and sent it to Texaco Petrol Company.  A couple of weeks later, the envelope was returned.  Inside was an application for a credit card!

If you want to know the purpose of life, you’re not going to find it in a petrol station. You’re not going to find it on a talk show.  You’re not going to find it in a self-help book. You’re not going to find it at some seminar.  If you want to know the purpose of life, you have to either talk to the creator who made you, or look in the owner’s manual.  You were made by God and you were made for God.  And until you understand that, life isn’t going to make sense. Now, we’re in this series called “40 Days of Purpose.” 

Today, we’re going to look at the first of God’s five purposes for your life.  God has five reasons for creating you, and today we’re going to look at the first. 


Number one, let’s read Revelation 4:11 out of the Bible.  “You (God) created everything, and it is for your pleasure that they exist and were created.”  The Bible says you were created for God’s enjoyment.  God made you just to enjoy you. God planned you for His purpose.  And the only reason that you’re alive is God wanted you alive and He gets enjoyment out of watching you.

If you are a parent, do you enjoy watching your kids?  Most of the time!  And I think the same thing is true with God, most of the time He enjoys watching you be you.  You were made for God’s pleasure.  When you were born, when you came out of your mother’s womb, God was there in that room, smiling from ear to ear, because He wanted you made.  God smiled at your birth because He created you to enjoy you.  He made you for His purpose. Now, last week we talked about how you were created to be loved by God.  This week we’re looking at the flip side, the first purpose of your life, which is God wants you to love Him back. 


He wants you to bring enjoyment back to Him.  As much as He has created you, He wants you to love Him back.  One day Jesus was walking down the street and a man came up and said, “Lord, what’s the most important command in the entire Bible?” Jesus goes, “okay, I’m going to give it to you.  This is the most important thing.  If you don’t get anything else, you get this.  This will summarize the whole Bible.  Okay?  Just get this.  It’s the most important.”  Let’s read it together there in Matthew 22.  It’s there in your outline.  He said, “Love the Lord your God. This is the first and greatest commandment.” Circle “first” and “greatest.”  God says if you don’t get anything else, here’s what you’re supposed to do in life: you’re supposed to learn to love Me back, because I made you to love you and I know you. And I want you to know and love me back. 


Now, there’s a word for this.  It’s a word we misunderstand so a lot of people don’t use it. It is the word “worship.”  Worship is knowing and loving God back.  My first purpose in life is to worship God.  It’s your primary objective.  It’s your highest priority.  It is your number one purpose in life.  The problem is, worship is misunderstood today.  When you gear the word “worship,” what do you think of? Praise? Prayer? Singing? Communion? Worship is far, far more than all those things. 

Probably the best verse that defines worship is Romans 12, verse 1. “Because of God’s great mercy to us… offer yourselves as a living sacrifice to God, dedicated to His service and pleasing to Him.”  There’s the pleasure part.  “This is the true worship that you should offer.”  Now, I want you to circle three words in this verse -- the word “because,” the word “offer,” and the word “offer.”  Because this is what worship is all about. Now, I’m not going to go into great detail in this verse, because you’re going to study this verse this week in your 40 Days of Purpose groups. But I do want to point out two things. 


First, worship is my response to God’s love.  I respond to God because He loves me.  That’s what worship is.  Notice it says “because,” “ because of God’s great mercy,” His love to us, then we worship Him back.  You see in this case, God takes the initiative.  God always makes the first move.  God doesn’t ever ask you to make the first move.  He always makes the first move.  And He creates us.  He saves us.  He forgives us.  He blesses us.  He protects us.  All these things and then because of all these things, we worship.  And notice what we do - we “offer.”  That word describes worship.  Second thing is giving back to God. 

Worship is giving back to God.  He gives to us, and we give back to Him.  And whenever you give back to God, whenever you offer anything to God, that’s called worship.  And that brings pleasure to God.  It brings enjoyment to God.  When your children are grateful to you, as a parent, that brings pleasure to you.  When we’re grateful to our Heavenly Father, that brings pleasure to Him. 

Now, the question is, when it says, “offer” – offer?  What am I supposed to offer?  I mean, what do you give a God who has everything?  I mean, finding Christmas gifts is hard for some people but what can you give God?  He made the universe.  What do you give Him?  I’ll tell you what you give Him…you give Him your love.  You give Him your love.  And He’s very specific about how to give it.  And we’re going to look at this today.  In Mark chapter 12, would you read this verse with me?  “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.” 

This, by the way, is the memory verse for this 2nd week in 40 days.  Notice God wants me to love Him three ways:  First, God wants me to love Him thoughtfully.  It says,  “love Him with your mind.”  Thoughtfully.  In other words, He wants you to think through, to not just do it without thinking.  He wants you to worship Him thoughtfully, know and love Him thoughtfully.  Second, God wants me to love him passionately.  He says, “with all your heart and all your soul.”  I want you to love Me passionately, because I passionately love you.  And Third, He says, I want you to love me practically.  Practically.  “love Me with all your strength”, with your abilities.  You see, the truth is that even though God created the entire world and the universe and He created you, there are three things God does not have unless you give them to Him.  He doesn’t have your attention unless you give it to Him.  That’s loving God with your mind.  He doesn’t have your affection, unless you give it to Him. That’s loving God with your heart and your soul.  And God doesn’t have your ability, unless you give it to Him.  That’s loving God with your strength.  Whenever you take the things God has given to you and you give them back to God, that, friends, is the heart of worship. 

 

1. Worship is focusing my attention on God

It is focusing my mind, my thoughts, my attention on God.  You know, in a lot of religions, the idea of worship is to put your mind into neutral, sort of lose your mind to the universe.  But the truth is, God wants us to worship Him thoughtfully.  It takes energy. 

You know why God wants your focus?  God wants your focus because He is focused on you.  Look at what the Bible has to say to us in Psalm 139 verses 1 through 3. “You have looked deep into my heart, Lord, and You know all about me.  You know when I am resting or when I am working” -- Would you read this last part with me --  “You notice everything I do and everywhere I go.” 


God has focused his attention on you.  The reason is He made you is to love you.  He made you to give you this attention.  And the greatest expression of love is often that attention.  Sometimes a man will ask me, you know, “my wife, my kids, they say I don’t love them.  But I do things for them.  I work every day for them, why don’t they feel loved by me?”  Because they want your attention. Attention is an incredible expression of love.  And God puts His attention constantly on us.

Remember the first time you fell in love?  You just couldn’t get that person off your mind?  You thought about them when you woke up in the morning.  You thought about them all through recess.  You thought about them all day long? You just thought about them all day long?  That’s an infatuation sometimes for us and it wears off.  But God -- the Bible tells us His love for us is eternal.  He is always focused on us, and He wants to teach us to focus our heart and our attention on Him. And that’s difficult sometimes.  It is difficult to focus on God.  Honestly, the easiest thing to do in life for us as human beings is to lose our focus.  We’re not like one of those auto-focus cameras that you might have, you point it at something and it focuses.  We have to decide to focus manually. 


Now, how do you do that?  Romans 8:7 says, “Focusing on yourself is the opposite of focusing on GodAnyone completely absorbed in self ignores God, and ends up thinking more about self than God.”  So we have to decide to focus on Him.  And then on the back of your outline, our culture -- would you read this verse with me, Romans 12:2, “Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking.  Instead, fix your attention on God.”  We must choose --choose to stop thinking about some things and start thinking about God. Now, how do you do that?  Well, first of all, you can start doing that by just establishing a daily time with God.  Just a few minutes during the day.  It doesn’t matter when you do it -- beginning of the day, middle, end of the day, where you decide I’m going to stop everything else and just be with God.  Talk to Him, read His Word. 

The Bible talks about that in Matthew chapter 6, verse 6, when it says this, “Find a quiet secluded place, so you won’t be tempted to role-play before God.  Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God, and you will begin to sense His grace.”  Would you circle a couple of words in this practical verse with me?  Circle the word “place.”  You’ve got to find a place to do this.  You can worship God anywhere.  Circle the word also in that verse, “simply.”  Just be with God simply.  No ceremony, no fancy words.  You’re just there with Him, talking to Him.  And then circle also the word “honestly.”  Just be yourself.  I want to relieve some of you of some pressure. 
Don’t try to be spiritual.  It doesn’t work anyway.  You end up not looking consecrated, but constipated when you try to look spiritual.  Because the truth is, you don’t have to try to look spiritual, you just have to try to get to know God better. So you just be there with Him honestly, establish a time with God. 

There’s a second thing that you can do to focus on God, and that is develop a continual conversation with God.  Look at the next verse in your outline.  The Bible tells us in Psalm 105, verse 4, “Worship him continually.”  Just think about Him throughout the day.  You have to decide to do that.  I know people do that in a lot of different ways.  I know someone whose screen saver is the word Emmanuel - when they see it, it reminds them to pray. I know someone else who every time they get into their car, they pray the first couple of minutes they are in their car as they are going somewhere.  It just reminds them to focus on God throughout the day.  Whatever you do, develop this constant conversation throughout the day. 

Focusing on God has incredible benefits in our lives.  Look at the next verse in our outline, the Bible tells us in Isaiah 26, verse 3, “you will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, whose thoughts are fixed on You!”  When you focus on yourself, the inevitable result are thoughts of worry, insecurity, anxiety, guilt, fear, discouragement.  But when that focus shifts from me to God, from you to God, all of a sudden, you begin to sense gratitude and hope and confidence and love.  Worship is focusing my attention on God.

 

2. Worship is Expressing my Affection to God

Expressing my affection.  This is loving God with your heart and soul.  And for some of you, this is kind of difficult because you grew up in families that weren’t real affectionate, weren’t real expressive, didn’t say I love you a lot.  Maybe you’re kind of the silent type.  It’s not real easy for you to express affection to God without feeling weird or kind of kooky about it.  You’re going to have to learn how to say “I love you God”.  Do you remember the first time you ever said “I love you” to somebody?  Probably scared to you death.  I had sweaty palms, my stomach was in a knot. I was all nervous…are they going to accept me or are they going to reject me - are they going to say it back to me?  Do you remember in primary school when they played the game “Who’s going to say it first”?  You sent a friend to say, “Do you know so-and-so likes so-and-so?”  And couldn’t just walk over to them and say, “I like you”. No, you wanted to find out if they like you first.  It’s so risky to say, “I love you.” 

But the neat thing about God is He’s taken away the risk.  He said it first. God said it first to you.  God said, “I love you.”  God has said it in a thousand ways. He created you. He’s taken care of you.  Even when you didn’t know it, He was showing love to you.  God has said over and over and over to you, “I love you.” So you don’t have to worry about who is going to say it first.  Notice this verse, , “We love Him, because He first loved us.”  The Bible says God wants to be loved. He wants to be loved.  Have you ever said, “I love you” to God?  God wants that from you.  Notice this next verse.  In Hosea 6,  God says, “I don’t want your sacrifices -- I want your love!  I don’t want your offerings --  I want you to know me!”  Circle the word “love” and the word “know,” because that, friends, is the first purpose of your life -- to know and love God. 


If you get that done, you have accomplished the most important thing in life.  God wants you to know Him and love Him because you were made to be known and loved by God.  The most important thing you can know in life is that God loves you.  And the most important thing you can do in life is to love Him back.  So when you get up every morning before you get out of bed, sit on the edge of your bed and say something like this, a little prayer. “God, if I don’t get anything else done today, at the end of this day, I want to know You a little bit better and I want to love You a little bit more.”  Because if you do that, at the end of your day, no matter how bad the day has gone, and no matter how many plans fell apart – if at the end of the day, you know God a little bit better and you love Him a little bit more, that day was a success.  That’s why your heart is still beating.  The purpose of your life is to know and love God, first, before anything else.  Read this next verse out of the Bible with me.  Exodus 34, it says there, “He is the God who is passionate about his relationship with you.”  Circle that word “passionate.”  God is passionate about you.  He longs to know you.  He longs for you to know Him.

Joanna and I have been married 26 years.  How about if I walked up to my Joanna one day and I say, “Honey, here are some flowers for you.  And I am giving you these flowers for three strategic reasons: Point No. 1, I am your husband.  Point No. 2, it is our anniversary.  Point No. 3, husbands are supposed to give their wives flowers on their anniversary.  So here.”  Wouldn’t she be thrilled?  I don’t think so.  Why?  She doesn’t want duty.  She wants desire. 

God doesn’t want your duty.  He wants your desire.

God doesn’t want – “Oh, okay.  I better go worship.”  “Oh, I love you, God” [said in a monotone voice].  God doesn’t do duty.  He doesn’t want ritual and religion.   He wants a relationship.  And He’s passionate about it!  And He says, “I want you to love Me as much as I love you, because I made you and I created you.”  Now, again, this is hard for some of you because you’re not naturally expressive people. So how can I express my affection to God?  Well, if you have never done it before, let me tell you how to get started.  Start by just saying “thanks.”  Just start by saying “thank you.”  Start looking around at everything and start thanking God. “God, thank you for a beautiful sky today. That’s gorgeous.”  “God, thank you for green trees.”  “Thank you for clean air.”  “Thank you that I’m still breathing.”  “Thank you that I had something to eat.”  You could go on and on.  You could probably think of hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of things just to start thanking God more for. That’s a good way to start expressing your love to God.

Look at Romans 6.  It says, “Give yourselves completely to God since you have been given new life.”  Again, remember, it’s always a response.  He says I want you to give yourself completely back to Me.  Lets summarise. Worship is focusing my attention on God.  It is expressing my affection to God, and

 

3. Worship is Using my Abilities for God. 
This is loving God with all your strength. You see, God wants us to see Him with our minds. He wants us to sense Him with our heart and soul.  And he wants us to serve Him with our strength. I have been married long enough to know that it takes more than just words and kisses to express affection.  Yes, Joanna likes me to tell her,  “I love you.”  And I try to tell her that every day.  But it wouldn’t mean anything if I didn’t back it up.  Sometimes there are chores to be shared.  Sometimes there are things that need to be fixed.  Sometimes there are errands to be run.  Sometimes there are responsibilities to be shared.  And that’s part of worship, too. 

Notice this next verse, Colossians 3:23, read it with me.  “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as though you were working for the Lord and not for people.”  Now, if you get this verse, it will absolutely revolutionize your life.  You’ll never be the same once you understand this verse.  Notice it again.  “Whatever you do” – that means anything –  “work at it with all your heart, as though you were working for the Lord and not for people.” 

 

You see, you don’t have to join a monastery to worship more.  Some of you will go home from this thing saying, if my No. 1 purpose is to get to know and love God, then I should have a quiet time with God, five hours a day.  No, you don’t need to do that.  Well, then I should come to church every day of the week.  No, you don’t need to do that either.  It is not about that.  You just change who you’re working for.  And when you change who you’re working for, your work becomes worship.  You see, many of you compartmentalize your life saying, “Okay, here’s my worship.  I go to church once a week.  Maybe I go to a small group once a week, and maybe I have a daily time where I’m reading a little bit every day about God and trying to learn from Him, and that’s my worship.  And then over here, I’ve got my career and then over here I’ve got my social life.” No.  God says I want you to invite me into every area of your life.  I want to be involved in all of it, invite me into the whole thing. Now, if you don’t get anything else we’ve said today, I want you to get this one truth, because it will revolutionize your life.  In life it’s not what you do that matters; it is Who you do it for. 


You give it all to God.  And all of your work can be turned to worship.  Say, “I’m going to do this as if I’m doing it for you, God.”  Now, you may be a carpet cleaner, you may be an attorney, you may be a nurse, you may be an at-home mother raising children, you may be an executive or a manager or sales person, or a truck driver.  It really doesn’t matter what you do. It’s Who you do it for. 


A lot of people get hung up on this and go, “What is God’s will for my career?  God, should I do this or do this?”  God says, “I wired you up in a certain way to have certain interests.  Why don’t you do what you’re interested in doing?”  God wants to know, “Are you doing it for Me?”, whatever you’re doing.  And so if you’re good at repairing things, you go out and say, “God, I want to repair things this week as if I’m doing it for you.”  And if you’re good at cooking, “God, I’m going to cook this meal, whether it’s for my family or for a restaurant, as if I’m doing it for You.”  And if you’re good at filing and organizing, “God, I’m going to file these things away as if I’m doing it for You.” And that turns work into worship, and then you’re worshipping God 24 hours a day. God doesn’t want worship to just be a church thing.  He wants it to be your whole life, to worship God with your life. Notice this next verse in the Message, it says in Romans 12, “Take your everyday, ordinary life – your sleeping, your eating, your going to work, your walking-around life – and place it before God” – as a what? – what? – “Offering.” There’s that word again.  We said “offer” is the essence of worship.  I’m offering my life to you.  Now, folks, this is where the rubber meets the road.  Real purpose-driven living doesn’t happen in a church.  It doesn’t even happen in a small group.  It doesn’t even happen in your personal time of quiet time with God every day, of prayer and reading the Bible. 


It happens in the ordinary, routine, mundane, things of real life where you go, “God, I’m going to take out the garbage for You.”  You can make beds to the glory of God. You can milk a cow to the glory of God.  You can clean your garage to the glory of God – and some of you ought to!  Everything can be turned into an act of worship. Notice, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart,” putting your heart and soul in, as though you were working for the Lord.  Now, what if you decided today, “God, tomorrow morning, I’m going to get up and I’m going to go back to work and it is the same old work I’ve been at for 10 years or 20 years or whatever, but this time I’m going back with a new boss.  I’m going to do it for you.”  That will turn mundane, trivial things that don’t seem to mean a whole lot into worship.  And honestly, that’s the kind of worship God loves.  I don’t want to bust any bubbles here today, but God really isn’t into incense and candles and ritual.  He’s into this kind of worship that says “God, whatever I’m doing, I’m going to do it for You.”  When you do that, then your life becomes an act of worship.  You see, real worship is a lifestyle.  The truth is everybody worships something.  You were wired to worship by God.  He put it in your DNA.  You couldn’t stop worshipping if you had to, because it is part of being a human. Everybody worships something.  That’s why you can go to any culture in the world and find people worshipping.  If you don’t worship God, believe me, you’re going to find a substitute real quick, even if it is just yourself.  The biggest temptation in life is always going to be to worship something else other than God, to give your attention, your affection and ability to something other than the Creator who made you. 

Now, the amazing thing is this:  if we focus our attention and we express our affection and we use our abilities for the one who made us, God says, “I’ll take care of everything else.  You don’t have to worry about it.”  Do you know what you’re going to do in heaven?  The Bible says in heaven, we’re going to give God our attention, we’re going to give him our affection and we’re going to give him our abilities, for all of eternity.  And here on earth, God wants you to practice so that when you get to heaven, you’ll know how to worship. Now, the greatest mistake you can make in life is to miss your primary purpose.  So let me ask you a question, what do you think about most?  Because whatever you think about most is what you love the most.  What do you think about when you just let your mind drift?  You let it wander, what does it naturally gravitate toward? Whatever that is, is what you worship. 

Did you know that your checkbook and your diary are theological documents?  Without even knowing you, if you were to show me your checkbook stubs and you were to show me your schedule, I could tell you right now what you love, because the way you spend your time and the way you spend your money shows what you love the most. The Bible says you were planned for God’s pleasure.  You were made to know and love God.  So I challenge you to make as the No 1 goal of your life before everything else, getting to know and love God, because that brings Him pleasure.  You make as your goal what Paul said in the last verse on your outline, he said, “So we make it our goal to please Him.” There’s not a better goal in life to have than that one right there.

Let’s pray.

Father, what we have talked about today is no minor issue.  It is the most important thing in life. Getting to know and love You.  I realize that there are people here at all different stages in their spiritual journey, some here for the very first time.  But help each of us to take the next step that we need to take.  “Dear God, I wouldn’t even exist if it weren’t for you.  Forgive me for all the times I think and act like You don’t matter.  Today I’ve realized You made me to love me and that the first purpose of my life is to know and love You back.  I’m amazed that You long for a relationship with me and I’m amazed You’re interested in the details of my life.  But most of all, I’m amazed You would come to earth to die for me.  I want to learn how to focus my attention on You throughout my day.  I want to turn my work into worship. I want to learn to love you with a love that You deserve, thoughtfully with my mind, passionately with my heart and soul and practically with my abilities. When I go back to work on Monday, I’m going to be working for You, doing my job as if You are the boss.” In Your name I pray, Amen.”

 

Adapted from a sermon by Rick Warren, with grateful thanks, as part of the 40 Days of Purpose series. See www.purposedrivelife.com for more information